Sunday, April 15, 2012

What do you wish for?


I often wonder what John Michael's deepest wishes are...  Or what he dreams about...


Do you ever wonder?

Just because they can't tell you, specifically, doesn't mean it's not there...

Greta told me yesterday, on her 7th birthday, that John Michael can live with her when she gets older.  She said she would love it.  I truly believe her.  John Michael calls Greta "Princess" and he is her prince.

I guess my biggest wish is for my children to continue to love and care for each other throughout life and to encourage and support each other in their endeavors.  There is do doubt that John Michael is loved beyond measure by his siblings.  I have great faith that John Michael will be one of those adults with Down syndrome that is a very independent self-advocate, perhaps living with a roommate in an apartment.  At least that is my wish.  And if he needs more support than that, he will certainly have what he needs.  But I know for certain he will be well cared for by his siblings when Doug and I are no longer around.  This little guy has had such a tremendous impact on us all, but especially his siblings. 

What do you wish for?
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3 comments:

  1. Monica - you are teaching them well and that is what is most important! I believe that most of his dreams are about what fun he will have tomorrow. He doesn't worry about his future, because he is secure in the love of his family. He knows the future is bright and this enables him to live in the moment and bring joy to all of us!

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  2. "What do you wish for?" That's a great question. I've been sitting here staring at this Comment box for a few minutes now. I wish my kids were all walking with the Lord, reading His word, attending church, secure in His plan for their lives. I wish we knew what that plan was for Beth. He has a plan for her, we just don't know what it is. I wish I knew.

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  3. So beautiful...Loved the pictures in this post. My wish too, is for Russell to be able to live independently one day...But if that is not possible, I know he is still going to have the most amazing, fulfilling, beautiful life...So in the end whatever happens, I know everything will be just fine :)

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